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CTYA’s Elections & Annual General Meeting 2013By Admin - October 20th, 2013 |
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Canadian Tamil Youth Alliance (CTYA) is seeking dynamic individuals who are responsible, enthusiastic and creative to join our Board of Directors. We are seeking for candidates that can utilize their experience, skills, and passion to empower youth to provide new innovative ideas and enhance the delivery of our services. CTYA will be holding elections for Board of Directors at our next Annual General Meeting that will be held on November 17th 2013. Please contact us for more details. The following positions are available for nomination: |
Thoondal: Emotional Intelligence – The Key to Success?By Admin - October 15th, 2013 |
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“You’re such a cry-baby!” “Why are you so damn emotional? “Are you crazy or something?” “Man up already!” These are all phrases we hear when we let our emotions go, and expose our feelings to others around us. Some of us are more likely to do so than others, and as a result, are often labelled as “cry-babies” and “emotional wrecks”. But, is letting our feelings go really such a bad thing? Emotion, as defined by the Merriam Webster Dictionary, is “a conscious mental reaction subjectively experienced as strong feeling usually directed toward a specific object and typically accompanied by physiological and behavioral changes in the body.” So, emotions, in general, are not negative (though we do often seem to merge emotions and negative feelings into being one and the same). Then, why is it that the minute tears are made visible, we become labelled as being emotional? And…is such an emotional state really so detrimental? Freud’s work consisted of frequent reminders of how controlling our feelings could really affect our psychological states. I am sure it is also practically clear that this is never efficient. When we control our feelings continuously, we are like pop cans waiting to explode from built-up pressure. Daniel Goleman’s Emotional Intelligence, on the other hand, expresses the importance of understanding your emotions and this, I believe, is the solution. Emotions should not be controlled, but rather understood, and not just by the audience, but more importantly by ourselves. According to Goleman, emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize and understand your emotions. In doing so, we are able to further realize how our emotions affect people around us. The concept is simple. Understand how you feel, and you will be able to understand how others feel. Your relationships with others become stronger, and you become more effective in everything you do. Goleman’s notion of emotional intelligence is composed of five elements: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy and social skills. An individual with high emotional intelligence is more in line with his/her emotions, being aware of his/her own strengths, weakness, and areas of improvement. As a self-regulator, such an individual is also capable of controlling his/her own emotions and impulses. Usually motivated, an individual with a high degree of emotional intelligence, is more productive and goal-oriented. Being empathetic towards others and strong social skills further allow such an individual to network, communicate well, and manage relationships. Having said all that, could it be that emotional intelligence is the key to success? Understanding our emotions and managing it, rather than caging them in, because we are constantly being told to control our emotions? Will that keep us on our path, focused and motivated? Well, if that’s the case, then why not give it a shot? However, I am sure we might need lessons on HOW to understand our feelings in order to do so, and I’m afraid my knowledge stops here. If you’ve got any insight into that, please do share! Maybe we might be on to something! |
Top Talents Awards Gala 2013 – Nomination Packages AvailableBy Admin - September 4th, 2013 |
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The Canadian Tamil Youth Alliance (CTYA) will be holding its 4th annual Top Talents Awards Gala in December 2013. We are now accepting nominations for our 2013 awards. If you or someone you know has been a high achiever and is an outstanding leader in the community, make sure you submit your nomination package as soon as possible. Nomination packages can be downloaded inside. CTYA is a non-profit organization and is the largest combination of youth associations and groups nationwide with Tamil heritage, culture and language backgrounds. Through the alliance, CTYA strives to empower youth to become outstanding leaders and citizens in our society. The Top Talents Awards Gala was initiated in order to uphold this mission of youth empowerment. Through this Awards Gala, CTYA will be celebrating the many Top Talents within Canadian Tamil youth. This event will not only recognize individuals for their excellence in their respective fields, but it will also serve as a ceremony of inspiration whereby other individuals will also get encouraged to pursue and showcase their own talents. The Top Talents Awards Gala is a great avenue where Canadian Tamil youth will be commended for their hard work and it serves as an encouragement for the youth to excel and follow their dreams. High achievements in the fields of Arts, Academics, Athletics, and Achievement categories will be recognized along with an open category. CTYA will be presenting each winner with a $500 bursary to acknowledge and motivate youth so that they develop as individuals and grow to become role models and leaders within the community. Last year, over 370 people, both youth and community members alike attended the event. Many youth icons also attended the event: Senthamil Stefi, WessTigga Athavan Anbalagan, Steve Cliff, Lenin Sivam, Vinsia Maharajah, Kokilan Maheswaran, Keerthana Pathmanathan, Rajeev Tha Prophecy, Eindui Thulasi Nanthakumaran, Jena K. Siva, Sarika Navanathan, Boywonder Anoojan Vijayasri, Sanjeev Jayasingam, Menan Nagulendran, Arun Vigneswarajah and Pushpalingam Kandavanam all joined the celebrations. CTYA recognized these youth icons in the community with plaques. Fans were very excited to see all the stars come together. Seeing so many youth icons further highlighted the talented youth we have in the Tamil community. Questions or comments regarding Top Talents can be directed to info@ctya.org |
Online Poll: Which Team Will Win Tamileelam Challenge Cup 2013?By Admin - August 30th, 2013 |
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Tamileelam Challenge Cup Soccer – 2013 will be hosted by the Athletic Council of Canadian Tamil Youth Alliance in partnership with Canadian Tamil Sports Association (CTSA). This year the tournament will be taking place on Saturday August 31, 2013 at L’amoreaux Sports Complex. Every year, the competition has been tough – with each team hoping… |
Senthamil Things: Social Media’s Influence on Generation YBy Admin - August 28th, 2013 |
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Written By: Senthamil Stefi As soon as you turn on your computer, do your hands automatically lead you to the Facebook homepage? This and other forms of social media dependency is a huge norm for Generation Y. So who exactly is a part of Generation Y? In Canada, Generation Y refers to those who were born in the early 1980s to the early 2000s. In our current day society, trends are set across the nation and even throughout the world through social media…even big revolutionary movements are started as such. But why are people so dependent on it? Well… there’s two aspects to look at: 1) professional use and 2) personal use. Professional use is more so a requirement due to branding and marketing, whereas personal use is optional and much like professional use, it acts to brand and market the individual to fit the image that they see for themselves. This pressure to maintain this image then causes a dependency, a form of anxiety. Many may argue that this is beneficial as it acts as a therapeutic shrink as it allows us to express ourselves, but the thing is through the form of social media in essence one is seeking the approval of those around them whether it be through “likes” or “retweets”. As many pros there are with social media, there is an undeniably list of negative impacts along with it as well, one of them being a dependency that can lead to mental instability as one seeks to maintain a certain image on social media. Being a part of Generation Y, lets put it to the test to see if I’m truly dependent on social media and see the effects that comes along with the abstinence of it. I, myself am challenging myself to be off social media for four months. I shall let you know how it goes! See you in four months! If you’re up for the challenge feel free to join in!! |
Tamileelam Challenge Cup Soccer – 2013By Admin - August 21st, 2013 |
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Written By: Directors – Athletics Council of Canadian Tamil Youth Alliance Tamileelam Challenge Cup Soccer – 2013 will be our fifth annual tournament making it an even more extraordinary event. The one day tournament will feature youth games from under 8 to under 14. It will also feature the always competitive Under 16 cup and the Open Men’s Cup. Scarborough Rangers S.C. will be looking to defend their under 16 crown as they as well as other teams will try to win the Under 16 Challenge trophy. The always competitive Open Men’s Cup will feature defending champions E.N.A. S.C. defending their crown against very competitive teams. Will the past champions of the under 16 group and the open men’s group win again, or will we be crowning new champions at Tamileelam Challenge Cup’s 5th annual tournament? This tournament not only strives to develop leadership skills and good sportsmanship among our youth but gives our youth an opportunity to maintain our identity through sports. To encourage the Tamil identity, the awards for best players of the tournament will be given under the names of national symbols of Tamil Eelam; Vaahai being the national Tree; Siruththai being the national animal; and Chenbagam being the national bird. Don’t miss out on this year’s exciting, competitive games at the Tamileelam Challenge Cup Soccer – 2013! For more information contact us at athletics@ctya.org. |
Children of Change – #SencholaiMassacreBy Admin - August 14th, 2013 |
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By: Shankar Raj Gone are those, who could have brought change 61 Sisters who would have brought change who could have brought change. Sutharsini (17) One day it will happen. I will remember the #SencholaiMassacre |
Senthamil Things: Is more really better?By Admin - August 6th, 2013 |
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By: Senthamil Stefi This is a topic that has stumped humans, both explicitly and implicitly, since the concept of money emerged into society. Can money truly buy happiness? Is more really better? Let’s first look at what money does to the nature of humans. Studies done by psychologist Kathleen Vohs of the University of Minnesota and her collaborators have shown that the mere glimpse of money makes people less generous, less approachable, and quite egocentric. Furthermore, another study done by an international team of researchers led by Jordi Quoibach, a post-doc at Harvard University, found an astounding observation through studies conducted. Though wealth may give us an abundance of opportunities to purchase things, they found that it simultaneously impairs our ability to be able to enjoy those things. But how can that be explained? They argued that since those who have money can experience the best of life, their ability to enjoy the little pleasures of life is undermined. Continuing with this theory, Sonja Lyubomirsky of University of California, Riverside, stated that through her studies she found that having money in turn raises our aspirations about the expectation of happiness we have in our daily lives. Basically, as our monetary sources increase, our expectations of what brings us happiness continues to proportionately or exponentially increase. So it seems as though it is a toxic cycle in which one constantly chases happiness but does not have the likelihood of ever coming close to it, better yet touch it. So this leads me to the conclusion that money builds the illusion of attaining happiness but doesn’t really bring it. Recently, an interesting theory was brought up by University of British Columbia associate professor, Elizabeth Dunn and Harvard associate professor, Michael Norton. They suggested that to a large degree, joy is more so correlated to how you spend money and how much you spend. “One of the biggest mistakes we all make with our money is that we fail to use it in ways that maximize the amount of time we spend engaged in activities that make us happy.” Furthermore, through studies done in countries ranging from the United States to South Africa, Dunn and Norton found that spending money on others provides more happiness than spending money on yourself. So the next time you find yourself staring at an expensive watch or a purse, think about whether or not that will truly bring you happiness. Instead, why don’t you buy a stranger a coffee? You just might be surprised on the level of happiness you would feel afterwards. |
Hon. Jason Kenney issues statement on 30th anniversary of the Black July pogromBy Admin - July 23rd, 2013 |
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Hon. Jason Kenney issues statement on 30th anniversary of the Black July pogrom Ottawa, July 23, 2013 – The Honourable Jason Kenney issued the following statement commemorating the anti-Tamil pogrom commonly known as Black July: “Thirty years ago today in Sri Lanka, violent mobs of armed extremists began carrying out attacks against the country’s Tamil population. Hundreds of Tamils were killed and thousands of homes and businesses were destroyed in the ensuing riots. “In the years since the Black July pogrom, July 23 has become a day of mourning and remembrance for members of Sri Lankan Tamil communities around the world, including the 200,000-strong Tamil community in Canada. “As we reflect on the violence that began on this day in 1983 across Sri Lanka, I take the opportunity to reaffirm Canada’s commitment to promote and uphold our fundamental values of freedom, democracy, human rights and the rule of law. “I stand with the Tamil-Canadian community in commemorating the senseless destruction and tragic loss of life during Black July.” http://www.jasonkenney.ca/news/hon-jason-kenney-issues-statement-on-30th-anniversary-of-the-black-july-pogrom/ Hon. Jason Kenney, PC, MP Calgary Southeast www.JasonKenney.ca |
Thulirkal: Singing Star Elisabeth Malini!By Editor - April 19th, 2013 |
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Elisabeth Malini L. She is a Tamil Canadian contestant who entered Super Singer 3. She was born in France (St.Cloud) Paris, living now in Canada. She graduated from York University (Glendon Campus) 2004 with Bachelor of Commerce in French, Completed her Bharathanatyam Arangetram in 2001 under her Guru Ananthy Sridas Sasitharan, and is currently pursuing a double degree in Vocal, Dance & Minor in Mrithangam at Anaamallai University in Toronto, Ont). |